Thursday, August 30, 2012

True love or .....

Pagi. Aku buka YouTube and tonton satu video kesaksian yang bertajuk "Dapatkan Jodoh Terbaik Dari Tuhan". I really love it and sangat diberkati lewat kesaksian yang disampaikan. LIKE sangat2.

 

Hari nie, aku tiba2 terpanggil untuk mengkaji tentang perbezaan antara 'true love' dan 'infatuation'. Banyak artikel yang telah aku baca dan semuanya mempunyai pengertian sendiri tentang 'true love' dan 'infatuation'. So, aku telah pilih beberapa petikan yang menarik untuk dikongsi setelah meminta bantuan dengan pak cik Google tercinta.. Thank you pak cik Google.. : )

  
Difference between love and infatuation...

“Real love involves commitment to the other person… infatuation doesn’t."
“Real love is more about how I can show I care for the other person… infatuation is more about how the other person makes ME feel."
“Real love is based on really knowing the other person… infatuation focuses on the physical qualities and impressions about the other person."
“Real love lasts through disagreements and trials… disagreements and trials often “bursts the bubble” of infatuation."
“Real love stands the test of time… infatuation doesn’t last.”
  
• True Love: Has a priority to maintain a close walk with God and desires to please the Lord above pleasing a guy.
• Infatuation: Thinks more about pleasing self and a guy than about pleasing God.  
• True Love: Desires to please her parents and seeks their approval in a relationship with a guy
• Infatuation: Desires to please a guy no matter what her parents think
.• True Love: Desires the approval of godly friends and spiritual authorities (Pastor, youth leader, Sunday School teacher) in her friendship with a guy.
• Infatuation: Develops a friendship with a guy no matter what others think and does not seek the approval of godlyfriends or spiritual leaders.

True love:  
-Your heart just knows that it's right. It will feel like you are home and warm and safe. You will just know that you have found what you have been looking for all your life. It's more than just attraction.
-The person in love knows all about their beloved's faults and shortcomings and they still care deeply about them. Their whole behavior is directed toward the other person's happiness.
- True love does not diminish when you are apart.
- Love allows freedom to choose and is never critical or judgemental. 
- If you can clearly see and accept all of your soul mates bad qualities and you put their needs above your own, then it is true love.

Infatuation:
-The infatuated person sees their adored one as perfect and flawless and they can become absorbed in daydreaming about them. They are more in love with their feelings than with the other person.
-You fell in love quickly (you are likely to also fall out of love just as quickly). True love takes time
-You know exactly why you love someone

 Konklusinya...

 (1 Corinthians 13:4-5), ‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.‘ But infatuation is impatient, gets angered easier because it’s more about ME and how you make ME feel than how I can make YOU feel.

God bless! : )

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